How to deal with problems in life?
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How to deal with problems in life?
One of the common complaints we hear from the people surrounded us are
problems they are facing. Every day and everywhere there is problems. Many times we find it hard to stay happy. When one problem is solved,
another one comes up.
People have money problems, work problems, Relationship problems,
family problems, health problems..... the list goes on. And we tempt
to think that people who are happy and successful are having less
problem than us. Looking at the successful people we say, look, they
don't have much problem. They have money they needed, they have job
they love, they have good friends, they have obedient kids, they have the successful business, they have loving family
etc. Everything going well with them. That is why they are happy and successful. But
the reality is that the more successful you are, the more problems you
have to face. More success means more challenges they have to face, more
success means more risk they have to take.
The number of problems they are facing makes them more successful. In
India, for leading a peaceful life, people often go to the forest or lonely
places like mountains or valleys to sit there and meditate. They are
called "Sadu" or "Sanyasi". They leave behind their obligation to the
family or relatives. They are happy and peaceful. They are running
away from life. The other group they do not have problems are the
people rest in peace at graveyard! Rest every one has problems, one way or the other.
No wonder, you would be happy, if everything goes well with you.
Young and old, rich and poor, successful and unsuccessful, educated and uneducated, all have
problems. The difference is the level of their problems vary from each other. Rich and
successful have big problems. Poor and unsuccessful have small
problems. Still they all have problems which they can face. Successful
people are successful just because they are ready to face challenges larger than normal people.
Poor are poor just because they are not ready to face challenges and
problems which rich people are ready to face. That is the difference.
Winning the US elections make Barack Obama very happy. As a new US
president, he has to face bigger challenges. He has to do right and
innovative things, otherwise he will loose his position. If he has to
keep his position, he has to face new challenges. He has to be more
careful about his work he does and the dictions he makes to run the country on a daily basis. Looking
at him, we may say he is lucky, happy and successful. But, I think, as
the US president, he has to bare more stress than he as an ordinary citizen.
"How can we find happiness in life" you may ask "if life is loaded
with full of problems?"
The answer is find happiness in taking care of
your problems. Deal your problems with a free mind. Learn to laugh at your problems which we face in our journey. Don't
take life so seriously. We must remember the key strategy of the
greatest philosopher ever lived in this world.
"Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat
or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more
important than food, and the body more important than clothes? Look at
the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns,
and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable
than they? Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?
"And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field
grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon
in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God
clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is
thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little
faith? So do not worry, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we
drink?' or 'What shall we wear?'
On the other hand we need problems. They will make us grow.
Problems are there to make us grow and learn. When you face a problem,
it is an indication that we need to change our way of life or improve
ourselves and change our behavior. If you are fighting with your
spouse or partner, no matter whose fault it may seem to be, it is an
indication that you need to change the way you behave and communicate
with your spouse.
As a responsible husband or wife, if you decided to evaluate yourself and
choose to take some positive actions like spending more time with
your spouse, showing more love, appreciating your partner more, listening with
your heart and communicating honestly, you would solve the problem and
end up as a better person yourself. You would grow when you face
problems.
If you have money problems, it is an indication that you need to
improve the way you spend your money. You need to analyze your
financial status and learn to manage your money. Learn to avoid
unnecessary expenses, and learn to purchase value for money. Learn to earn money. Don't run
after branded items and first class seats. By analyzing and correcting
your way of spending and investing, you have gown. You learned from
your problem. So there must be problems for the growth. It make us
grow into a better person. When we grow in that level, life will take
you to the another level of success. So problems are the steps to your
growth and success. It will get you into a successful business or
having a love life in your relationship.
When you avoid problems or not dealing with your problems properly means you are growing downwardly.
Let me explain. When you having a small fight in your family, instead
of dealing with it properly, you can run away or ignore and start
blaming others. Then these problem will grow day by day, which will
brake your relationship. Then you enter into another relation hopping to lead a better life. But very soon you will find the same problem in the
worst form. Then you think that the earlier life was better than this. If you ignore the knock of the life, life will come with a
bat to hit you. If you avoid that also and not changing, life will hit
you with something heavier than the bat and crush you. Your growth
will be downward and you will grow to a worst person in life. We see
such shattered and bitter persons around us. So be careful when you
face problems.
When you have money problems, it is a knock from the life. If you
avoid or ignore it, very soon you will become bankrupt. You know Mike
Tyson earned around $ 300 million in his boxing Carrier but lost
everything and filed for bankruptcy in 2003 owing to a debt of $ 27
million. There are a number of successful persons out there who lost
their fortune by wiled life. They are successful in one area, but not
successful in another area of life.
Unless you change yourself, the same problems will come in your way from every walk of your life.
If you learn and change, life will take you to another level of success.
Have you ever noticed that some people keep on experiencing the same
problem in every company they are working and in every relationship
they are entered into. They often fail to realize that they are the
ones who creating the problem consciously or unconsciously. Instead of
blaming others, they need to change them self. What they need to do
is change themselves.
Solve it when it is small.
Problems starts with small arguments, ignoring it, occasional fights,
ignoring it, then it happens frequently and you fell into bitter fight
which will end up in separation or end of the relation. See, problems
also grow day by day.
Successful people know how to deal with problem when it is small. That is why they are happy and successful. They do not have much
problems.
Successful people know how to manage their money when they face small money problems. Start act on it. Deal with it. Correct it.
When you have small health problem, manager your diet. Deal with it. You will become successful, healthy millionaire, with a happy relationship very soon
It is the time to look at God
Jesus told his disciples that "In this world you will have trouble. But take heart!
I have overcome the world.” Yes there is trouble in this world. One
way or the other, we all have to go through some kind of troubles. It
may very from person to person, place to place, culture to culture, but
all have to go through some troubles in this life.
God could have kept Joseph out of jail, kept Jeremiah from being tossed into a slimy pit, kept Daniel out of the lion’s
den, kept Paul from
being shipwrecked three times, and kept the three Hebrew young men from
being thrown into the blazing furnace, but he didn’t. He let those
problems happen, and each of those people were drawn closer to God as a
result.
When we go through the troubles and problems, it draw us near to God.
It help us to look at God. It help us pray earnestly to God. That is
the time when we say our honest, heart felt and authentic prayer. God
is the only one who can deliver us from all of our troubles.
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I am not sure I agree with all you stated, but I do agree that we need to deal head on with issues as they arise, lest they become compounded and your find you life spinning out of control. I'm with habee, Thumbs up!
Problems are only that simply problems, sometimes we blame others but most of the time we need to look, listen and learn.
Our problems leave us feeling alone as often as not, but we are never alone, Christ is right there with us. All we need to do is reach out and lean on Him.
Thought provoking hub, but again we all deal with things in a different way...mine is with Christ at my side.
Blessings
Some advices are really good. Just that not everything can be solved by dealing with it.
And not everyone is going to have a million dollars in their bank.
Good hub anyways!
rich people do not have bigger problems that poor people. I consider not knowing where your next meal will come from a bigger problem than divorcing your 3rd golddigger wife. obviously we all have problems but human suffering is universal, whether rich or poor everyone is seeking something in life. the point is life is hard for everyone this is what motivates us to keep going from day to day.
hey good advice! please post more like this
Interesting hub. I think in this worlds struggling economy that everyone has the same problems nomatter what the scale is. Rich or poor. GPAGE
Dear all,
Thanks you verymuch for your comments.
Thanks once again from the depth of my heart.
really good advice..thanx alot
Good tips. :)
That's right! Whatever the problem is, find a solution. If you don't, it becomes whining and worst. Problems do not go away by itself. Thanks for sharing!Great hub!
You gave some good advice. I would just like to add that it doesn't matter what back ground you come from you still end up with big and small problems. Mainly the outcome is how you handle the situation. There are also times you just have to accept what you can not change.
We need to deal with problems, but if we stay there trying to fix things, too long -- by the Law of Attraction we just vibrate at that level -- and soon we attract -- More of the same! Do we want more problems to fix??? No!
I'd say just "notice" that you have a problem and move on to more happier times. Give up trying to fix everything... When I came to terms with everything I have done as -- a divine experience, my life changed. My life became: Happy, happy, happy!
more hints at my hub... "giving up mind chatter!"
Very nice hub!
You've got some great advice here, Jacobkuttyta. Problems are truly a fact of life whether we're rich or poor. It's how we choose to deal with our problems that defines us. Some complain, others look for a way to solve.
We've been assured, "Seek and ye shall find, knock and it shall be opened unto you." We must look for our answers.
Great hub. I look forward to reading your others.
Excellent hub! Thanks for the great advice.
thanx for ur good advice...
Nice article, great advice.
Very good thoughts and ideas... Keep up the good hubs
Good food for thought.Its all in the mind Jacobkuttyta and a matter of taking ownership and responsibility.
Thanks all for your visits and comments
Good Advice. God Bless You
Isn't it great that we really need the problems to grow? God Bless you. I love your hubs. Became a follower.
Thanks stars439 and Hanna Ministries for your comment
It's encouraging..
Thanks once again
Awesome :):) thanks for the great advice
Thanks Rishfa for your comment
I agree with RevLady but with you that when problems do come we need patience if our mates aren't as quick to solve or learn. Whether we want them or not problems will come and our knowledge, attitude and willingness to do the right thing will decide how bad or how often. Like learning to walk I guess, and we go on learning throughout life.
really awesome, great hub.
Great advice, thanks for posting!
Nice hub! I enjoyed reading it!
Great advice, thanks for posting!
Excellent advice! Thank you for sharing them. :-)
Its a great advice, just remember all people living this world have different problem, just have faith in our almighty and solution will come in the right time.
We must enjoy our life in every moment.
First of all, the word ‘problem’ is so negative that even labeling situation as a problem we already have a problem. There’s no such thing as ‘problem’. We need to realize what we call problem is actually change of ‘set of circumstances’. Things in life are never static, everything is constantly changing. The most wonderful things in life are bound to change but good news is with ‘bad’ things too. Nothing ever stays the same. Once we accept changes as part of our life, only than we can shift our perception about ‘problems’. It’s never situation which cause suffering, it’s only our interpretation about certain situation. Let’s start with something small; try calling ‘change of circumstances’ instead ‘problems’ and see how you feel. You might suddenly realize that problems do not have the same impact on you as they used to. You might be surprised.
An extra special hub. Great writing
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Thank you very much for your visit and encouraging comment.
I agree with this kind of mindset, but some problems can't be resolved and sometimes can't be accepted. I think, for example, those who have money problems, real problems. There are many people in the world that can not ward off the cold, eating, sleeping in a bed. perhaps these are problems that can only be solved by the entire population, only with the help of all.
another problem that is can't be resolved is a serious disease, although by disease we can always learn a lot.
Thanks for your comment Fucsia.
I think money problem can be overcome by our actions.
Nice article
thank you for your very2x good advise.. I've learned a lot...
It is important to teach children at an early age, how to handle stress' and problems.
Excellent article. So much so,that I've linked to it.
Excellente and interesting article, you said in a small text a important Word's How problems in life can be resolve and not be ignored .
Thank's for HUB continue with your Good work :D
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Simply great advice and article to deal with all sort of problems in life. Thanks you so much Mr. Jacob for enlightening people in todays gloomy scenario, where world is saturated with problems.............! Keep up the good job.
God Bless U.
Regrds
Vaibhav
Really valuable & motivating comments. I am ready to face any problem now.
nice tips,really very helpfull
I do appreciate all the love and support people have been sending my way this week. The extra social support really helps. Knowing that people are finding value in these updates gives me more motivation to keep going. So thank you for that!
thank you for all
I think The size of your problem defined by your efforts to convince your self that isn’t a problem
Thanks shihab eldeen for your kind visit and comment
its something useful in one's life to develop in all respects.....
To answer the title question I would say "With Calm" :D
Very practical advice, really good hub.
nice hub
Well i agree to you and your words.But I would like to add something to this.Situations get worse when u hangup yourself to small issues and keep banging your head on thinking of the reasons and asking yourself why,why, why ????? it happened."Forget" and "Forgive" are two good words we have which will let us feel quite relax .
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Thanks all
I do appreciate all the love and support people have been sending my way. The extra social support really helps. Knowing that people are finding value in these updates gives me more motivation to keep going. So thank you for that!
Thanks all
I do appreciate all the love and support people have been sending my way. The extra social support really helps. Knowing that people are finding value in these updates gives me more motivation to keep going. So thank you for that!
really good advice....!!!!
lot have been said... i think am in the right place at the right time..........all i can say is thank you for these good words
it's really accommodating for those who have problems to read some article like that!!!
what if you did not do wrong? what change do you adapt in, how do you cope with it? what reasons must you have for it to flash away.life sometimes can be unfare
Dear Noluthando,
Whether you did right or wrong is not the question. The question is how you are dealing with the the wrong doers. Are you dealing with it? Are you making them aware that they did wrong? Do you communicate that you cannot continue with or tolerate the wrong they are doing? Deal it with a free mind. You are worthy. You have rights and obligation while in relationship. Know about it and act upon it. That is the key to lead a successful life.
Thanks for your visit and comment
Interesting insights! I personally feel that understanding ourself first is the key to solving most problems in our daily life. It is the key to lead you to where your heart really belongs!
I am very impressed and to confess, I have learn so much. I pray that with this lesson learn from your article will help me deal with life problems. ofcourse i take life very serious which i believe have led to continuous stress and unhappiness i faced on a daily basis.
YEs........ liFE gives us lessons to learn.
Beautiful hub and i do agree with you that everyone has problems. Infact the day you come on this earth your problems start and dont end till you end. Though i dont beleive that sadhus dont have problems. They do have problems of food, health, clothing infact everything and on top of it they have to beg for everything. Yes they have run away from responsiblities like cowards but their problems dont end there.
Totally agree...I learn more about life.
good job
that is a good advice & this makes me to be successful in my problems.And i want also to advice you to continue with your good works.
good bye
*NO SUCCESS WITHOUT A PROBLEM*
THEREFORE A PROBLEM IS A BEST TEACHER
oh life problems are all over me..thank you for this
Well, I agree with you. Now I am not happy person but I want to be happy. If I want to lough now than I have to lough against my mind. But you wrote that we have to keep (lough)in our face when we are in problem. Actually I think it is not happy, rather it's may be joke...........thank you.
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A nice and good advice
thank u very much its a good one. NO PAIN NO GAIN
Wow wat an inspiring words and thoughts , face the problem with guts and self confidence
We face problems to grow thus a good one there. thanks very much that is wonderful work done. happy new year and stay blessed.
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thank you , good advic
NICE PIECE THANKS
it was really a nice tip,,,, it can anyones life,,,
good tips
Thanks for these.... it really helped me.. speciall in my philosophy of life...
Thanks hubs...good advice!it helps me a lot
Thanks hubs...good advice!it helps me a lot
Yeah good advise; my problem is I try to do good but life sucks I try to plz my wife all the time but the more I do for her the more she wants never can be plz I'm tired what should I do
gaandu
good advises
i agree with you, will try to apply now to myself and see if will work..
great reading, superb advice!
Excellent message to those who struglling for life problems.
Thanks very much,i realy enjoy reading it
habee Level 7 Commenter 2 years ago
Thumbs up! Good advice.